FORGETFULNESS IS SINFULNESS

Marriage has no intention of making anybody feel restricted. Everybody who is committing to marriage is engaging in it to be happy. Everyone who gets married intends to expand their lives in every way possible. Instead, marriage has become a burden to almost every married couple because the institute of marriage is not attended to. Married couples don't reserve time for themselves to observe their married life together. Instead, they are busy finding fault with each other. Nothing yields to anybody if time and effort are not invested into it. The design of marriage is universal. Yet, the mind and the emotions cover up the universal phenomenon and replace it with their knowledge and logic. Marriage becomes very limited in the mind and emotions, and humanity suffers due to limitations. It is time for our generation and the next generation of children to arouse and develop different expectations toward marriage. Every girl should know that when she grows up and decides to get married, she can choose whether to rest after childbirth or not. That decision shouldn't pose any problem in her marriage. She should be willing to allow her husband to take his place as a provider for her family. The woman must know restfulness is life. Every boy should also know that a woman is not the girl she was in the same classroom with. A woman is yet to come. When they get married, he should know that a woman who has his children need physical support from him. And be prepared that he is responsible for supporting the mother of his children if they choose to have children. This is the way he shows his love for a woman. For marriages to heal and become present, they need the dedication of both the man and the woman. In a marriage, gender is significant because men's body functions differently from women's. The way these differences are handled reveals the maturity of the married couples and the success of the marriage.