Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting

Learn to meet women in genuinely confident and high-quality ways, both in-person and online. This isn't a book about pickup artistry; it is the opposite and is far better.


If you have been struggling due to lack of confidence, not knowing what to say, or not having a plan, this book is for you.
If you are tired of being told to act confident around women without being told how, this book is for you.
If you are afraid to approach women in public, this book is for you.
If you aren't having success meeting woman on dating websites or apps, this book is for you.
If you have trouble connecting with women on dates, this book is for you.


If you are worried about how to think about building a long-term relationship with that great lady, this book is for you.
The book is divided into four Parts. In Part 1, we take a candid look at you, your wants, your goals, your mindset, what might be holding you back, and think about what you really want out of the dating process. Parts 2 and 3 are densely packed with effective, practical, real-world advice and ready-to-use examples for meeting great ladies both in person and online. Part 4 covers the dating process and building toward and sustaining a healthy and lasting relationship.


How can this book help anyone of any age? Here is what's inside:


Part 1 - Planning and Preparation: Get yourself and your mindset right. Develop the type of natural self-confidence that makes it easier to approach women. Know what you want. Define precisely what qualities you are looking for in a woman -- the ones she must have for you both to have the best chance at long-term happiness. Lastly, we define our rules of conduct for this entire process.


Part 2 - Meeting In-person: Next, we move to the thought process and mechanics of confidently approaching and meeting women in-person. We will cover effective ways to do this and what to avoid. This part is extensive, and densely packed with modern, field-tested and ready-to-use examples.


Part 3 - Meeting Online: Meeting women using the internet sounds like it should be easier, but many men find that isn't the case, so we need an entire section for this subject. Toxic behavior on dating sites turns many ladies off. For others, their inboxes are full of unwanted messages daily, crowding out the genuine ones from good guys like you. Here we will use principles from Part 1 to set up your profile, and provide effective methods for reaching out to and connecting with ladies of interest in a confident, safe, productive and fun way. Loads of practical and reusable real-world examples are provided.


Part 4 - Cultivating and Sustaining: You've met someone. Now you invest more time to get to know her even better. You need to use the first few dates to see if she is right for you. Practical guidance to help you through these conversations is provided with many examples that will "wow" her, and keep her laughing, engaged, and interested. Here you are also showing her who you really are: someone she can rely upon; someone that she, her family, and her friends will value having in their lives; a strong asset for any future family that you might choose to have together; and someone that your children will look up to with their hearts full of pride.


There is no reason for you to be alone. Do it for yourself. Do it for the family that you envision building.