Touched by Suicide

Touched by Suicide by Christi Taylor-Jones delves into the very personal, yet archetypal, reasons why people choose to end their life, or think about doing so. Although depression and mental illness are often cited as motivating factors, Taylor-Jones contends that anger, shame and self-hatred are greater contributors. Anxiety and impulsivity are also implicated. Underlying the suicidal urge, however, is a deep, and often unconscious, longing to end suffering through transformation and rebirth. Lacking the ability to undergo that process symbolically leaves no choice but to enact it literally. Taylor-Jones emphasizes the importance of the symbolic element, and points out that suffering is part of life, and to live life fully requires making meaning out of the pain we do suffer. She explores the views of suicide throughout time, from the Greeks to Christianity and later psychology. She describes the role depression, mental illness, shame, and trauma play in suicidal thinking, as well as heroic and selfless motivations behind some suicides.The book also distinguishes between conscious and unconscious suicide. Her book, based on her own personal and professional experiences, as well as the basic tenents of C.G. Jung regarding the Self, the individuation process, and the soul, offers insight and hope to those who consider or who have attempted suicide, as well as those who seek an in-depth approach to the subject. Taylor-Jones claims that we need to transform the shame and judgment that often accompanies suicidal feelings and replace them with empathic understanding of suicide's ultimate goal. Christi Taylor-Jones, MA, LMFT is a certified Jungian Analyst and writer, who is a frequent contributor to the journal Psychological Perspectives and other publications over the last thirty years. Her first book was Midlife Parenting; A Guide to Having and Raising Kids in your 30s, 40s and Beyond. She has also written and presented extensively on the issue of shame, depression and suicide. Table of Contents Preface Acknowledgments Introduction 1. Suicide Up Close and Personal 2. The Who, How, and Why of Suicide: An Overview 3. Historical Attitudes Toward Suicide 4. Suicide and the Soul 5. Jung and Suicide 6. Modern Views of Suicide 7. Suicide and Shame 8. Suicide and Depression 9. Suicide and Trauma 10. Transformation: An Unconscious Human Longing 11. A Clinical Perspective: Two Cases of Suicide 12. Summary and Reflections Appendix 1: The Case of Suicide in Seattle Appendix 2: Statistical Overview of Suicide Rates Worldwide and in the United States Appendix 3: Neurobiological and Genetic Factors in Suicide Notes Bibliography Index About the Author